I admire people who fly or own their own jet. The aesthetics of such aircraft make them so attractive. Then there’s the aerodynamics, speed, and convenience factors … owning your own jet certainly puts a whole new perspective on life. But think about it: who climbs into the cockpit of a jet without proper knowledge of the flight instru- ments—airspeed indicator, altimeter, attitude indicator…?

No one!

Would you allow an undergrad to do a coronary bypass on you with- out the knowledge of how to perform a successful surgery?

No, you wouldn’t dare.

Now why would anyone dare date someone without the proper knowledge of dating?

Any wonder why your social media relational status reads; “It’s complicated” Duh!!!

When Tom Cruise jumped up on Oprah’s couch expressing his undying love for Katie Holmes, it sent tremors of elation through the globe. They seemed the ideal couple -never truly happier!

However, to the trained eye something was wrong; (why you need a relational coach hint-hint).

Tom was 46 and Katie, 26—a significant gap in the developmental stages of life.

Guess what? Their marriage lasted ONLY seven years!

PATHETIC! Because this could have been avoided.

In my opinion, Katie may have been caught up in Tom’s power, combined with the heat of chemistry (the “love molecule” -see Dating Readiness Book) and his irresistible public reputation. Who wouldn’t refuse Tom?

I’m sure he’s a great guy. What I’m say- ing—and this is a no-brainer when you commit to a date without the correct knowledge of why you are dating—is that this is regarded as “relational suicide.”




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There’s the right reason and then these the dead fish reason -dating for the wrong!

No matter how trendy or successful you may be, dating for the WRONG reason is not cool!

There are important differences between successful dating and what’s trending culturally.



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Have you ever stopped to think about the profound mystery of the Birth of Jesus Christ? Although many people, even unbelievers, have heard the story of Jesus’ birth, its real mystery may be missed because of that familiarity with the “story”.


The birth of Christ was not the ordinary birth of an ordinary man.



“Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star as it rose, and we have come to worship him.” (Matthew 2:2).


When children are born, hospitals usually register their births. When Jesus was born, a star registered His Birth. His birth AFFECTED nature because it was registered in the celestial. Notice this saying of the wise man “We saw his star as it rose…”


How Does His Birth Affect You Today?

Far from only a historical fact, the supernatural power of His Birth is the power that impacted all creation.

It is stated in Lukes 1:35 -Jesus was conceived by the Power of the Most Highest.

That is, the same power can be seen demonstrated when Jesus performed His first miracle, that altered an order of nature chemically – the molecular structure of water became that of wine; that is, He rearranged water molecules H2O to C6H12O6.

In the event where anything natural tries to rebel against the purpose of God for your life, Jesus Christ can rearrange it.

As born again child of God, the same power of the Most High God is upon your life to conceive and give birth to the plans and purposes of God that will lead many unto salvation.

Never accept the report of the natural order of fallen things, they can be re-adjusted. If instance, when doctors say that your sperm count is low – remind him of a virgin who gave birth supernaturally! When the doctor says you have no fallopian tubes or that you have an ovarian cyst, let them know that the Power of the Most High is upon your life, therefore you can give birth to children regardless of any negative medical report.

When the devil wants you to follow the order of fallen things, tell him that there is a pattern set by God that does not follow dead bond destinies!

His Birth marked the most significant turning point in history.


Remember this: There is a pattern set by God that does not follow dead bond destinies! Expect something significant to touch your life today. Take a moment and meditate on the power of the Nativity of Jesus and ask God to demonstrate the same power in your life.


Make His Birth, meaning in your life today.
(Matthew 2:2, Luke 1:35)